This Strong Mantra for controlling partner containing the Beej mantra of Ma Durga will make the energy inside you extremely fierce, so use it carefully. While in the remedy of this mantra, its fierce effect is pacified by chanting Om initial, so you can do Sadhna with and without Om. https://www.instagram.com/tantramantraaurvigyaan/reel/DBB9oCZOA-j/